Got a lesson from a friend that as long as you don't let go of something, how would u ever know if u deserve or can get some thing better. It’s so true but then it’s easy to say then practice. Just imagine you are in love with some one who doesn't care about you much or doesn’t pays as much attention as you deserve, but then you are deep in love with that person. Can you leave him/her to get /find some one better??
I don't think anyone would do it, to be put correctly can do it. Only time can teach us how to let go of such people. As I believe its better to get hurt once and cry our heart out then getting hurt every day, because this person did not do some thing he/ she should have.
We all should learn to love or not to love some body according to how we are being treated. I don't believe in philosophy like we shall love people irrespective of how they treat us. One should learn to love oneself, and once you have learned the art, no one can possibly hurt you, as you would not let anyone hurt you.
Till the time we don't learn to love our self we can keep our self occupied so that we don't think too much about the person concerned. As we start decreasing the time we give to this person, we start becoming independent. We depend lesser on this person which is a great achievement, and then one fine day we become free bird. Then no such person ever matters to us. So the aim is to become a free bird, now whatever path you chose depends on you.
So, be happy.
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Life is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. Shakespeare thought so. But in tennis, nothing means Love and so by crazy permutations and combinations Life is love and love is life. So loving self is a beautiful thing, but if you keep your arms away from loving others, then you'll find holding yourself and sailing the boat alone. If you are prepared to do so... Go ahead and all the best!
ReplyDeleteThanks Anonymous,
ReplyDeleteFor taking time to read the post and comment on it. Come to think of it i dont want to sail the boat alone. But yes would try to love my self more, so that i dont give right to anyone to hurt me.
Thnx Again
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